Hi. I’m Skylar. I’m bipolar. I was diagnosed in 2012. I wrote a book. No one takes me seriously because of my mental illness. I finished my book in 2017. I shared it with 7 people, including family members. No one read it except one friend. She read 50 pages. She told me I needed to rewrite it. She said that every author has to do a rewrite. I haven’t touched my book for four years, how could I just open it and start rewriting it? Sure I had read through it like 3 times. Front to back and back to front. Sounded fine. It was my Opus. Then, one night while I was making play lists for a friend that was unpacking I felt inspired. YES! I could do this! I could download the Google document onto my laptop and start the rewrite. So I did. As I got into it my bipolar symptoms began to show themselves through my medication. I am highly medicated. My friend had a talk with me. She said to me, ” You seem a little manic.” I responded. “I really get into my writing. I am slightly elevated.” “Maybe you need a medication adjustment?” She explained. She was probably right. “What you don’t want is to go to the hospital,” she stated. Ain’t that the truth, I thought in fear of my husband’s response. When she talked to him, he agreed to make me an appointment after some argument. You see, no one let’s the bipolar one speak for herself because she’s “ill”. I have an appointment for a medication adjustment on January 5th. Until then, I have to mind my P’s and Q’s.
The fear of the hospital hangs over my head Everytime I want to open my laptop. I have rewritten part 1. My husband let me do that. I stopped at part 2. I am confused. I am writing the truth guised in a wild imagination. The characters are based on real people in my life. People who touched my heart and soul. People I never had the chance to say goodbye to. I made up a world where they could have an adventure and get to know one another. I need to let go of a life I used to have. I have to put this book to bed but when I said to my husband that to do this rewrite I would need to be on my laptop everyday he threatened to put on his shoes and take me to the hospital.
So…here I am waiting for my medication adjustment. I am leaning on my best friend too much and my other best friend just wants me to remain calm and not get too elevated. The project excited me. It’s fun. I am having the time of my life! It took me five years to write it. It’s all handwritten. Then I put it together and typed it up. With the rewrite it’s so much smoother. It’s still really difficult. I have to out the laptop down sometimes. I pulled two all nighters to finish rewriting part 1. That’s 125 pages. I just want to have the same freedoms anyone else would to be able to open up my laptop when I need to. For example today; I wasn’t going to pull an all nighter, I just needed to add the word “flux” near the word “dimensions” I think dimensions might be overkill. Even I say enough already to this change.
Sometimes I just want to open my laptop to type up some notes in the sticky notes application. Or watch a movie that the television won’t bring up. Or I just find the personal computer to be a comfort in my arms after all this time. I quit my job. I write at night. My son is being taken care of. Breakfast, lunch and dinner are made and the dishes are done. There’s even a beer and a cigarette in my husband’s hand. What’s the problem?
Please don’t judge me. I love me.